Hunger...
We've been programmed to fear it.
Fear that rumble in the tummy. Feed it every time we feel or hear it.
Hunger is perfectly ok to feel. There can also be so many factors that influence our hunger, and also different types/stages of hunger.
It’s a great skill to learn to differentiate between different hunger signals and cues.
Start asking yourself:
Do you need to eat right now?
Do you want to eat right now?
Do you feel like you should eat right now?
If you're having trouble with this, you're not alone. Most of us have forgotten what it's like to feel truly physically hungry (or satisfied).
So make a game of it as you practice.
Imagine this. You've just been shipwrecked on a desert island. (Not a dessert island, that would be a dream.... hmmmm Messina.... Damn, now I'm hungry!)
Would you be the person who starts to freak out once their stomach starts rumbling?
Or would you be the person who shrugs, gets to work making some pointy sticks, and hangs in there until they can spear a wild pig for dinner? That person knows that hunger isn't an emergency.
Yeah, being hungry kinda sucks. But you'll survive.
Your muscles won't dissolve if you don't get dinner by 6 pm.
Hunger comes and goes in waves.
Most of the time it's just a little uncomfortable. Nothing you can't handle.
Use your observation skills.
Pause. Observe it for a few minutes.
Try playing the hunger game.
When you notice yourself wanting food, pause for a moment.
Signs of ACTUAL hunger may be: lack of performance for daily tasks, trouble thinking clearly, getting HANGRY, irritability, feeling weak or faint, low energy levels.
We don't want you to starve. We simply want you to pause, observe and reflect.
Rate Your Hunger
Imagine a physical hunger scale from 1 to 10.
Before each meal, pause. Ask yourself: Am I physically hungry?
Rank your physical hunger on a scale from 1 to 10.
If you're somewhere around a 7 or higher, go ahead and eat.
If you're not there yet, wait a little longer. Remember that physical hunger comes in waves. So if you feel a wave of hunger, wait for a few minutes and see what happens. It might just be a small urge.
Eat slowly, and pause after each bite. Check in. Notice your body signals. How would you rank your hunger now?
If you're somewhere around a 2 to 3 or lower (which is more or less 80% full), stop. Pause. Again, notice what this stopping point feels like. Or what thoughts come up.
If you're not yet down to a 2 to 3, take another bite. Repeat until you get to something that seems like 80% full. Then stop. Again, this doesn't have to be precise. You're just getting the hang of where this stopping point occurs.
Notice what 80% full looks and feels like for you. For example:
What was an 80% full portion size?
What sensations told you that you were at 80%?
What foods seem to help you feel fuller for longer?
How fast or slow did you eat?
Tip! Unprocessed foods (such as fresh fruits and vegetables, lean meats, beans and legumes, etc.) will help you feel fuller for longer.
Hunger Signals
Need, want, or should?
Of course we need to eat, to keep your body alive.
But often we don't need to eat (right now). We want to eat. We feel like we should eat.
Our bodies' natural hunger and fullness signals can get drowned out by "noise" from:
What we feel. “It's been a tough day. I've earned some pizza and beer.”
What's around us. "Damn, that steak smells good!"
What we think. “It’s 1 pm. I’m not really hungry, but I should eat. I mean, it is lunch time.”
What other people think or want. "Another serving? Well I shouldn't... ah, what the hell."
Differentiate between true signals and just noise.
The signals are meaningful information from your body.
Tip! When you use or hear the word "should", that's probably noise.
FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS
What you're feeling, physically (e.g. shaky, lightheaded, tense)
What you're feeling, emotionally (e.g. pissed off, relaxed, "hangry")
What you're thinking (e.g. "I can't pass up this biscuit! It reminds me of my Nan")
WHAT'S AROUND YOU
What situations make it easier or harder to make good choices
What foods make it easier or harder to make good choices
What environments make it easier or harder to make good choices
Right now, just observe. Don't judge or feel like you have to "fix" anything.
Awareness leads to change.
Keep doing what is working so far.
What signals tell you that you NEED to eat today?
What signals tell you that you WANT to eat today?
What signals tell you that you SHOULD eat today?