This is a 3 step formula to help you successfully build the daily practices to form habits to help you move towards your goals.
This follows the habit loop principle of:
Cue, Routine and Reward.
Anchor is a Cue.
Behaviour is the Routine.
Celebration is a Reward.
Try to use this each week and every time you want to form a new habit.
A - Anchor
Find an Anchor Moment.
An anchor moment is an existing routine or event that happens. The anchor moment is a cue or reminder to practice your new behaviour/practice. Eg. Brushing your teeth, Phone Vibrating, Walking in the Door
B - Behaviour
Ideally, we want to break this behaviour down to make it small and simple to practice. The behaviour is done immediately after the Anchor moment.
C - Celebrate
Immediately after practising the behaviour, celebrate your success to reinforce the habit. Tick it off your list, give yourself a high five, or tell yourself how awesome you are. Make sure the celebration works for you and it helps you feel happy and successful.
Attach the new behaviour onto a current behaviour (the anchor) and use it as a reminder or trigger to practice the new habit.
The celebration reinforces the behaviour and form the habit loop.
Habit Stacking
In line with the ABC Recipe (Anchor, Behaviour, Celebration), we have the strategy of Habit Stacking.
One of the best ways to build a new habit is to identify a current habit you already do each day and then stack your new behaviour on top. This is called habit stacking.
You pair a NEW HABIT with a CURRENT HABIT.
The habit stacking formula is:
After/Before [Current Habit], I will [New Habit]
Again, the reason habit stacking works so well is that your current habits are already built into your brain. You have patterns and behaviours that have been strengthened over the years. By linking your new habits to a cycle that is already built into your brain, you make it more likely that you'll stick to the new behaviour.
Once you have mastered this basic structure, you can begin to create larger stacks by chaining small habits together. This allows you to take advantage of the natural momentum that comes from one behaviour leading into the next.
You can also insert new behaviours into the middle of your current routines. For example, you may already have a morning routine that looks like this:
Wake up > Make my bed > Take a shower.
Let’s say you want to develop the habit of reading more each night.
You can expand your habit stack and try something like:
Wake up > Make my bed > Place a book on my pillow > Take a shower.
Now, when you climb into bed each night, a book will be sitting there waiting for you to enjoy.
Overall, habit stacking allows you to create a set of simple rules that guide your future behaviour. It’s like you always have a game plan for which action should come next.
Consider when you are most likely to be successful. Don’t ask yourself to do a habit when you’re likely to be occupied with something else.
Be specific and clear. The specificity is important. The more tightly bound your new habit is to a specific cue, the better the odds are that you will notice when the time comes to act.
For me personally, I’ve implemented habit stacking the following ways:
Brushing teeth at night in the shower
Making the bed when the kettle is on for my morning coffee
I put the dishes away before I wash the next set of dishes up
I write in my journal when I have my morning coffee
I have my Vitamin D and Fish Oil when I have my morning water
I read when I drink my tea before bed
Nutrition Habit Stacking - add Protein or Plants to your meals
Eg. if your current breaky is oats add a scoop of protein powder to my oats
Love avo on toast, add a side of ham or smoked salmon
Protein bar/shake snack add a piece of fruit
If you want to build a new habit, see if you can stack it onto a current habit as a trigger to prompt you to start it.